Product Overview
A few sentences that capture the essential you. Think of this as the box copy.
Your name
Age
Place of origin
Where you live now
Cover photo
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How would a close friend describe you to a stranger in 3 sentences?
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What do people almost always get wrong about you when they first meet you?
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What's the thing you're most proud of about yourself that you'd never say out loud?
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I am fundamentally:
An introvert
An extrovert
Genuinely ambiverted — it depends
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Complete this: "Once you really know me, you'll find that I am..."
System Specifications
The hard data. Think of this as the spec sheet on the back of the box.
Sleep requirement
Daily rhythm
Energy recharge method
Relationship with alcohol
Physical affection baseline
Relationship with routine
Q08 · Select all that apply
Dietary profile:
Omnivore
Vegetarian
Vegan
Gluten-free
Kosher
Halal
I'll eat anything
Opinions about food bordering on religious
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Foods I genuinely love:
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Foods that are a dealbreaker — I will not eat them, don't try:
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Anything else someone should know about how I physically move through the world:
Operating Modes
How this model performs across different environments and conditions.
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What am I like at my best — when everything's clicking?
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What am I like at my worst — when I'm depleted or overwhelmed?
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Under stress, I tend to:
Withdraw
Talk it out
Get busy and productive
Spiral
Project it onto others (I'm working on it)
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In social settings I am:
The one who works the room
Happiest in a corner with one good person
Variable — depends entirely on the group
The one who leaves early and feels great about it
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Describe a situation where you feel completely in your element:
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Describe a situation that reliably makes you uncomfortable:
User Interface
How you prefer to give and receive information, feedback, and care.
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My preferred communication channel:
In person
Phone call
Text
Email
Voice memo
Depends on what you need to tell me
Q19 · Select one
My texting style:
Full sentences, punctuation, the works
Lowercase chaos
Voice memos person
I use the phone as a phone — call me
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How I prefer to receive feedback or criticism:
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When I'm upset with someone, I:
Say it directly
Go quiet
Make a joke
Need time before I can talk about it
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What I mean when I say "I'm fine":
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One communication habit I have that I know can be difficult for others:
Connectivity & Compatibility
What you look for, what you offer, and how you connect.
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What does friendship mean to me — what do I actually want from a friend?
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What kind of friend am I? What can people count on me for?
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My attachment style (loosely):
Secure
Anxious
Avoidant
Fearful-avoidant
I don't trust these categories
Q27 · Select up to 2
My primary love languages:
Words of affirmation
Acts of service
Receiving gifts
Quality time
Physical touch
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What I look for in a romantic partner — not traits, but what quality of connection am I after?
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Green flags — things that make me lean in:
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Red flags — things that make me step back:
Advanced Features
Romantic and sexual specifications. Entirely optional. If skipped, this section will not appear in your manual. Answer only what feels right to share with the intended recipient.
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What am I like as a romantic partner — what do I bring?
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What do I need from a romantic partner that I don't always ask for?
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My general romantic appetite:
Constant, please
I express it in my own way
I appreciate it but rarely initiate
Actions over gestures — show me, don't perform
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Romance that lands — the specific things that work:
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Romance that doesn't land — well-intentioned things that miss:
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Sexually, I am:
Very driven
Moderate — responsive more than initiating
It varies significantly with context and connection
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What I'm like as a sexual partner — what someone can expect:
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What I love and respond to:
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Hard limits — things that are off the table:
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Something about my sexuality I've never quite known how to bring up, but it matters:
Known Bugs & Limitations
Documented issues the manufacturer is aware of. Honesty here is the most generous thing you can do for someone who's going to love you.
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My most reliable pet peeves — things that get under my skin:
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My least attractive quality, described honestly:
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A pattern I keep repeating that I wish I didn't:
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What I'm like when I feel criticized or rejected:
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My relationship with being wrong:
I update quickly
I need a minute, then I come around
I struggle with it — I know, I know
I'm working on this
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Something a past partner or close friend said about me that was hard to hear — and that I now think was probably true:
Maintenance & Care
How to take care of you. What restores you, what you need in difficult states, and the small rituals that matter.
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What restores me when I'm depleted:
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What I need when I'm sad (as opposed to just tired or stressed):
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What I need when I'm anxious:
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When I'm sick, I want:
Space and silence
Someone to fuss over me
Benign neglect with occasional check-ins
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The things that reliably make me feel loved:
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The things that make me feel unseen, even if unintentionally:
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What I'm like right after I wake up — and what the protocol should be:
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Guilty pleasures — the things I love that I maybe shouldn't:
Troubleshooting Guide
The most useful section for the people who love you. Symptom, probable cause, recommended response.
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If I've gone quiet and seem distant, it probably means... and the best response is...
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If I'm being irritable or snappy, it probably means... and the best response is...
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If I'm pulling away romantically or emotionally, it probably means... and the best response is...
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If I say "I'm fine" in a particular way, what I actually mean is...
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The fastest way to repair things after a conflict with me:
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Things that make conflict worse — what not to do when we're in it:
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What a genuine apology looks like to me — what I need to hear:
Warranty & Support
What people can count on you for. The guarantee.
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What can people count on me for, unconditionally?
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How do I show love — what are my native love languages in practice?
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What I will always do in a conflict, even when it's hard:
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What I'm actively working on becoming better at:
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What I want people to feel after spending time with me:
Version History
Who you used to be. What changed you. The updates that mattered.
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Who were you at 20? How is that person different from who you are now?
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What's the experience that changed you most?
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What belief did you used to hold that you've completely abandoned?
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What's something you've gotten softer about with age?
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What's something you've gotten harder about with age?
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What does the current version of you still have to figure out?